My piece of advice for all women, married, single or single mom on marriage matters

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My piece of advice for all women, married, single or single mom on marriage matters

Women women women.. God has a reason for providing we men in your life because men have better and more logical judgement on some issues which women naturally overrides with

emotions. If you have some sensitive issues, please always discuss it with your man or your hubby or with a trusted male friend for a better opinion. Please, please this is a crucial info that can save a life or a distress situation. I am not saying women don't think but the opinion and perspective differs.. And most times, most women give bias and reckless advise that can ruin your life or even escalate the situation of the crisis at hand.☝️🤔 For the men, this is what I have to say to you, before you marry, I repeat, before you marry, look well, I repeat, look well, check and cross check, if the angle from which your looking is not convenient, please try to change position so you can get network or possibly use Torchlight by night to see what your about to buy or bank your life on. If your glasses or spectacles obstruct your view, remove am so you fit see front well well, and if you feel you truly need glasses, please get one. Looking is allowed but once you buy wrong market..... Your matter na oti lule! The truth of the matter is most ladies out there today are not just ready for the real meaning and sacrifices of marriage... They just want the sugar coated and icing on the cake side of the marriage. Many men if not 98% of men have toll the path of destruction following the wrong choice of women just as some women have chosen wrong men as choice of husbands. 

If you look at most marriages today, 80% of men are truly suffering. Yes a lot are suffering and smiling. Forget about the trendy cool and savvy outward appearance. All na packaging hence the need for side chicks. Yes women often times play and push their hubby into the safe embrace of side chicks in the end the society still blame the man.. Look around you, reflect on many marriages you have encountered, you would see the banality of these words clearly engraved in almost every home. It is not easy to be a man on the receiving end, in the end women would say lets go to court and what happens in the court cases, women always wins... Most devious things men are said to be doing in the name and context of marriage are things forced on them by women. Men are always the victims of toxic and abusive marriages. Lets get this straight. Weytin kill Samson, David, Solomon, Ahab, Job and Adam you can continue to reel out the long list...?? That unravishing and uncontrollable appetite for ........ Which ever way you want the compass, it is always south for the men... Men are often the real victim of toxic home contrary to consensus and society's believe. For every woman, whatever you do to any man in marriage, your sons and daughters would also get the reward when they are married. If you want your kids to do well in life, treat your man well as a woman. Karma still works. Treat every man well wether your married or not, just as men should be admonished to also see women in good light. The reason some men and women are not doing fine in life today is because their mothers and fathers have unfairly treated someone dastardly in the past... Most especially women... A lot of women have done men strong thing that would later come to haunt them with their kids later in the future. Look at the case of the recently lost Saint Obi a popular Nollywood actor? Many men are dieing in silence exactly that way.

 However meticulous we may be as to choosing the right spouse, some of us would be lucky and some would not but with God's wisdom and direction, we shall be well guided. As men and women, make we dey try get small small sense o. May our birth certificate not be another apology letter from the CD factory. May we all continue to be guided in our quest for happiness in life. And may our sons and daughters not be mislead in the wrong direction in Jesus name. Okuko nti ike na anu ihe n' ite ofe. A na agwa nti ma niti anughi ebelu isi, nti e soro ya. 


When there is a will, there is a way.

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