11 signs of how to spot a fellow with a toxic mindset

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11 signs of how to spot a fellow with a toxic mindset!

1. Whatever you do, you are never good enough for them. They are like Oliver twist... The more you give in your time, resources and energy they always want more... And all your efforts is for sure going down the drain like water pouring into the basket.

2. On the surface, most appear calm and peaceful but underneath is a cauldron of endless chaos, complications and disaster. Most will smile and laugh as a cover up but underneath are an astute sadist.. The only way to know is to poke a hole in their deep rooted narcissism and the real beast in them would surface.

3. Sacrifice is an alienated word to them.... Instead they expect you to shed your blood for them while they watch you bleed in amusement.

4. They are confrontational and ready to pick a fight with anyone as they assume everyone is their enemy or up against them or are easy to accuse others as the reason for th!eir set back



5. They suffer d!e!pression problem but always try to hide it behind their brilliant smile. Instead to seek help, they pretend all is fine and well, when deep down an unfathomable hell burns underneath and awaits to be unearthed. 

6. They can never connect the piece when it comes to social ethics because of the ugly colors of their past as they suffer mood swings, today they are blue and tomorrow they are red..

7. Since the rest of the world is wrong and they are always right. They always play the victim game and enjoy if everything in the world just appeal to their imagination and anticipation.

8. "Am sorry" is not in their dictionary,even if it does, they don't know how and when to use it.

9. Sure they do give a red flag in advance. Build a sky scraper with them and in one night, they can unplug the music and cave all the efforts, ruining the blues for everyone in attendance. Those who have nothing to lose are not afraid to help you lose everything.

10. Have you found anyone lately with trust issues, most likely passively or actively they have some measure of toxic traits in them so beware.

11. Ingratitude. This is often the last card of toxic people, its like they have an affinity for disaster and chaos hence the word disaster. Even when the lights eventually shines through for them, these set of people have an unhinged but yet stereotypical views that "out of chaos, beautiful dreams are born so wherever they go or are expect to see some rocking of the boat.. Expect a disaster. In as much as gratitude is a burden nobody likes to repay, no matter what you do or however as ingratiating as it may always appear, these fellow always feel they owe you nothing in return. Pick a bee out of kindness and you will know the limitations of kindness. These are they class of people who says, "What have you done for me they your ranting everywhere!"

NOTE: Mind you, this is not to say toxic people are bad nor the evil in the world that  should be avoided at all cost but a set of people who are victim of circumstances and a traumatized past that need help and if you cant help them.. Better to maintain your safe distance before you catch a flu or virus while trying to save a life..

When there is a will, there is a way.

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